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  • in reply to: I need serious advice. I’m about to end it. #142673
    bakiri
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    Hello,

    Isn’t hope the one thing that drives us to gamble? I am truly happy that you are honest with your siblings, for the plan – every debt paying plan is good, but you need to focus on the gambling addiction first, as you may slip again and go to even bigger debts, just understand that we are manipulated by casino’s psychologist that knows exactly how every situation will be consumed by our brains, the best of this situation is that you are filling that you have the potential to achieve big professional and mental gains, just focus on that if it’s only about the money you can easily sleep 5 hours a day and work 2-3 jobs.

    P.S debt for 1 year is not that stressful mate, some people on this forum work 10 years to pay their gambling debts.

    Hope to hear back from you.

    Best wishes,

    in reply to: i have nothing left i lost everyone and everything #142671
    bakiri
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    Hello Alex,
    I am sorry about your loss even though he left 9 years ago, I lost a person who I admire and love a year ago and hardly can even cry, but the pain is still there and it will always be, I am truly happy that you are such a sensitive person and angry for the psychologist decision to prescribe you medicine in such glassy age, I understand your decisions about taking drugs, I personally take weed regularly and I feel like I am in my safe zone, but only in controlled ranges. I remember my first gambling bet it was because of my girlfriend and I also wanted to buy her everything really fast made 350 from 15bet we were so delighted about it and I lost them in the next 3 days. You are not alone we are here to support you emotionally or with rational advice if you wish to hear us, you have the world in your hands, so young, be patience, set up goals for the future and chase them, work every day as hard as you can for the person who you want to be and when you go to bed just realize that you are one day closer to your goal, my personal moto is as much as “No’s” I get in my life I am one step closer to “Yes”, one day that girl will want you back, they always do, it may take 1 year 5/10, but you will feel me one day, now make sure to go back home, apologize to your parents and grandpa, they are your family and will take you back. Reply to me I am your friend and I wish only the best for you.
    Hope to hear back from you.
    Best wishes,

    in reply to: I’m Consumed by Guilt and Shame #142667
    bakiri
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    Hello 2121ezzo,
    I feel your struggle as I find myself in the same situation, I want to let you know that you have my support and prays, don’t think of yourself as something different than a normal person, casino’s give millions for psychological researches on how to addict us and we are just manipulated, we think of euphoria as happiness, but it’s not, that feeling makes us happy, but we are not rational, we need to find peace with everything that surrounds us and this is how we will find true happiness. Thinking about the losses and how to gain them back by depositing is again manipulation, forget about the money, money is not everything, you can sleep 5hours a day work 3 jobs and gain a lot of money, set up mental/professional goals for the near/far future and chase them.
    I am here for you my friend.
    Best wishes,

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