[nkremzar]

Good Morning Cathy (worriedmama)
I have read your thread the first day being on this site and wanted to thank you for sharing. The saying goes sharing is caring and that is so true. I managed to be on the chat last night and it was such a burden offload. I feel like I have fight in me again and most important is to put ME first and like you said- STOP BEING THE ENABLER.
Have a great day futher
xoxoxo

[nkremzar]

Good Morning Redare and thanks for being in the support group last night. Like I said….first time this week I laughed and felt lighter. I understand this journey wont be easy, but at least I am not walking alone.
Have a great day further.
xoxoxo

[nkremzar]

Thanks Velvet. I will join your group in evening.

[nkremzar]

Good Day moms.
Thanks for this forum and thread. I just joined today and I cant believe that there are so many moms in the same situation as myself. I have been in the same boat as all above, but my situation takes another turn where my son impersonated me and made huge loans, which I am now liable to pay. He doesn’t have a job, so what is your suggestion. Do I repay the debt or should this be taken up legally with the debt collects and they wait for payment when he does receive a job?
Same as every other mom of a CG ….our kid is lost inside an addict.
Im lost….

[nkremzar]

Good Day V
I’m new here. Just joined today and I will join your group tomorrow night. My son is a CG for over 3 years now and I’m feeling lost as he has attempted suicide twice already in this year. I have been reading many forum here and Its sad that this compulsion takes over these beautiful souls….so sad

[nkremzar]

Hello Forum. Thank you so much for this. I just joined today and have come across this thread. I am also a mom of a CG. Its the 3rd year now and every time he relapse, it’s worst. Support is key here. …The line you wrote “If an ultimatum is not kept then the CG will believe that he/she can ‘get away with it’ over and over.” is so true.
My son has been 3 times to a rehab and this time I decided to look into a support group, as it looks like he is more of a manipulator since he has been at a rehab. Are there any suggestion for rehab and support facilities in Johannesburg South Africa, which you can recommend?
He has also attempted suicide twice because of this and I am now so afraid. We have both been for joint therapy, but it seems to work for a while, then just fades.
I feel lost….
Naz

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