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You do need to be honest with your wife explain to her it’s an addiction that you got and you need help getting over you need her she is your key to help you stopping really don’t go get 30k loan pay 20 off leave you 10k that 10k is 10000 pound in 20 pound notes really we don’t see money go when we gamble online you can not afford to gamble another 10k try get yourself that loan wih a good apr rate to pay credit card off or try leave your self with 2k to help you with expenses for rent ect your first step it to tell your wife with my partner I could say now I would be dead I had to tell my mrs I was 80k in debt she stood by me explain you got an addiction you are going to go GA you want to recover that the place to be mate they will first tell you tell your wife she’s your key of stopping if I don’t reply before 6 I’ll be at work driving hope this is another day that you are gamble free mate one day at a time and just for today I won’t gamble x

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Keep telling yourself just for today I won’t gamble time will go quick im nearly on week 4 keep it up bud your doing great your not alone

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It’s never to late to stop sound like you may have some good credit rating I really fink you need to be honest with your wife and tell her everything and hope that she stand by you and help you ive lost silly money myself 80k and im 26 I know only ow 17k still a long way to go but with my partner help I can’t gamble she has total control over the money it’s the best thing I’ve ever done it’s hard to recommend somthing for a 36k debt on credit card as 36% is a lot and you could stuggle to get rid of it with that apr you can get a debt management plan they will also help you you dong want to let that 36% apr on 36k carry on for to long you could do with rather getting bank loan with like apr rate of around 7.4 and get rid of that credit card you could also call debt management they will help you so much with managing your money i do fink you need to talk with your wife I understand its a hard thing to do she’s your soulmate she should stand by you and help you admit what you have done tell her you got a problem hoping she will work with you to help you put barrors in place for you hope this can help you a bit your not on your own out there buddy

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Just a update I like do write on here as it helps me look over and that people are listening it’s nearly been 4 weeks now since my last bet my mate don’t talk to me about his wins or loss ect I’ve been working that hard at work I ent had must time to fink about it it’s like I’ve almost forgot about it I use to wake up go work and on way home I new I was going to bet now I keep myself busy I’ve started buying and selling and fixing laptops phone screen ect and have cash in hand again as soon as I do a job the money goes to my Mrs I’ve really started to respect money a lot more now I did come close well I won’t say close as I have no access to my money so glad my barriers are in place to stop my temptashion if u are a gambler and you want to stop you can’t do with with access to your money silly me I when on YouTube and was watching roulette spins ect and the way people are winning silly I know but again I just couldn’t do it I’ve had so much support now from my partner and close friends there is no way I’m letting them do I still take it one day at a time times had gone so quick I want to visit this ever week just to help me with my time I like to update I always come across to check Replys and also to read other people’s story’s I deep down never fort I could stop after loads of times trying and it’s always for god sake back to Square one again I’m not going down them roads again them mood swings being snappy I’ll always be a gambler but I won’t allow myself to let the disease get the better of me I’ll do my best to stay away I really want this time to work hope your all doing ok I’m always here to help and advise people I would love one day to really help people with this addiction look forward talking cheers jay

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It’s been 7 days nearly now and it’s been hard today by watching the football ect but I done it and feel good to watch the football and enjoy it insted of betting and hoping for somthing to swing my way ive got so Meny things in place I can’t gamble if I wanted to unless my mrs gave me access to my money again but don’t fink she will but yeah update doing well love reading people’s story’s ans how other people are getting on I just hope 1 day I’ll be able to help people is such a hard thing to try get over ect im so happy I didn’t bet today I though to myself this morning it’s guna happen today im not guna lie I did look at some odds on football but I had no way of betting at all hope every one is still gamble free one day at a time 🙂

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Hi thanks for that I know what you mean with you say U don’t want to fink about what you lost I do agree yeah a trigger in our heads we have to let that go I know I’ve had a problem it’s about the last 4 years that it’s got worse but gamble is just a chase chase you hit U hit then U lose everything never had i gambled to my last penny I always make sure money is there to get us though the month in a way it’s good as ive got shares in a business that’s no risk finishes in December ive got 2 lots that should be around 12000 that’s going to pay a lot of my debts off im looking forward staying gambler free and becoming debt free im
Hoping With in the next 2 years I’ll be making money that I can just spend on holidays ect more things for kids I always take it one day at a time first words I say to myself waking up is just for today I won’t gamble soon it will be a week then a month then a year I need to keep myself busy my Barriers are in place don’t get my wrong the diesease is uncurable ive just got to keep it under control that I don’t let him back in if you know what I mean I found this site just by reading people’s storeys ect it’s good to see people on here are here for each other and that we are not alone I always use to ask myself why can’t I stop I cryed and cryed saying stoppppppppppppp and I just couldent taking advice of people tieing money up ect really helps I have no access to my money anything I want from my cards my Mrs get me the money and I have to show how I spent it ect thanks for you message means a lot and I hope you and your family are all well and you are coping well as its soooo hard even people I meet a GA 10 years clean they say I could easy have a slip just as much as you

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Thanks for that 6 days now no bet I ENT even really thought of it been busy working a lot of hours and started coming home doing a lot for things with the kids like reading drawing anything that keeps them happy insted of them seeing me on a laptop going mad and then saying you ok dad im not going back there it’s not fair I grew up with my parents gamblering I use to save my school money years ago just to do a 10win Yankee my parent use to place the be for me there know way I can let me kids fink that this is right

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I stopped going my meeting and I must of won’t about 1200 and thought right this is good again but 3 weeks lata back to a losing streak again we win we win but when we lose we lost the money we won and all our hard earnings

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I’ve learned now from my meetings I use to go to the money lost has gone we fink we are going to get that big hit that will make use no debt and a nice chunk to spend im here looking for help stay positive do what im doing put barriers in place were you just can’t gamble I thought I could cope with my money and not gamble or have a bet and leave it but I can’t i cant lose a penny I’ll be chasing mate if I losted 2500 and some how got 2000 back I would have to carry on untill I got my money back it’s all or nothing with me

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