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Do i really really chop off all the money?

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Dear velvet, thanks for your reply.

Everything that you mentioned was true.. true love always play a big part to the journey when our love ones is in addiction..

He came back, and being a alpha guy i know he will never admit being a cg. It been a few days, he have not touch the slot. Just yesterday i gave him a 100 i told him i felt he was stressed with no money and i hope this is to allow him to buy food n drinks n not on games. 

I have small talks n hint statements like i know is not easy and i cant do it for u, but ill be with you. Every night i massage for him n he slept flat with soothing music, one night he finally said something like i need u with me to watch netflix as i felt restless n seems like my virus is coming again. I took it as i understand and quietly smile to him and tell him is ok, we can do it tgt. 

I just wonder if this help any cg here.. i have no doubt in giving as part of true love.. i know alot say never give them money, but i just dont know how to be harsh all the way, sometime too harsh they will escape n run, so i did the diff approach to hopefully give him courage n touched hoping he wont feel lonely changing for the better.. 

As i said i am soft heart but looking at ur comment i felt i really have to switch abit and be stronger. 

My sisters were drug addicts for the decades and when i was young i know is so draining but love n support is all needed in the process of recovery…

I want to believe what i am doing is right although alot say is never going to help being kind.. i hope friends who are having cg read this n believe there are really true love from family n partners.. those bad friend pls chop off.. u will not regret in the future…

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