[jakeski21]

Today, at 23 years old, gambling has ruined my entire life to this point. I wasn’t brought up in a bad situation, my family gave me every chance that is possible to give someone so that they could start a great life. I haven’t been in a toxic relationship by any means, I’ve had the best person in the world as mine for the past 7 years. My fiancée hasn’t known how bad my addiction was until today, two months before what was supposed to be our wedding. We have been talking about joining our savings accounts for a while now and at one point I was ready to do that. A few months went by from when we first talked about having a joint account and she asked if we could go to bank and get it done. I then had to tell her that I haven’t been saving any more money for a while had lost most of everything I had saved to gambling and that I’ve been lying to her about my savings. My mind gives me every excuse possible to cope with the gambling and has me believing that I can make back the money I lost either from gambling or the new job that I am supposed to start soon. Me and my fiancée are not speaking right now, I’m not even sure if she still is my fiancée at this point or if I’m ever going to be with her again. But I know that even if we stay together, that I have ruined every bit of trust that I’ve built with her for the last 7 years. I know that when my parents and family find out about this that they will all look at me different and that I will have ruined some of the trust that they have in me as well. I’m not sure why I am writing this or who I am going to share it with, but I thought that maybe getting it all out there will help me realize the extent of the problems that I have caused and help me realize that I do need to get help. Maybe this will be something that I am able to look back on somebody and see how far I’ve come.

[Anigdavis]

Hello
You’ve taken the first step with acknowledging that you have a problem. You also disclosed this with your fiancee. You will definitely have to start building up your trust with her. Action speaks louder than words.
I’m not sure if you’ve reached out to her lately . If not perhaps talk to her about wanting to build up your trust. Just a suggestion….. maybe she can handle the money and banking. Allow yourself to be open to her suggestions as well. I believe you still have a chance for marriage and happiness with her. It’s up to you.

[Anigdavis]

Hello
You’ve taken the first step with acknowledging that you have a problem. You also disclosed this with your fiancee. You will definitely have to start building up your trust with her. Action speaks louder than words.
I’m not sure if you’ve reached out to her lately . If not perhaps talk to her about wanting to build up your trust. Just a suggestion….. maybe she can handle the money and banking. Allow yourself to be open to her suggestions as well. I believe you still have a chance for marriage and happiness with her. It’s up to you.

[dunc]

Hi jakeski21

It looks like you’ve created 2 identical threads. To help you get the support you deserve ive locked this thread to comments leaving the thread with the most comments active

Kind Regards

Dunc

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