[Johnny B]

I agree, we cannot stay mired in the past, but I think we have to remember, because we still learn from it. I think the damage to friends and loved ones is much greater than we realize because they love us. I wish I could say I loved myself enough in the past, but as we have discussed an evil side effect of CG is the self esteem that we all lack. But alas we are strong, especially together to keep this under control. Thank you for your input over the last months, I feel we are all in this together, as long as we want to be.
Look forward to future chats!
John