I accidently closed out my other thread, so I guess I start another.  I like my title for me.   I don’t have that nugget of wisdom and I had really hoped that at this point I would have.  God, so many people here have so much to offer others.   I want to know how you can be selfless in offering support.  I totally respect you.  I don’t seem to have those abilites in this whole gambling thing.    I struggle so much myself that I don’t really think I can help anyone else.  I will figure out this whole recovery thing.  I just feel totally alone with it.  How many of you actually have a real person that you can talk to about it in your life?  I don’t have that.  Maybe that would help.