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HI ALL,

I am a ugandan aged 24 years. I finished university albeit through alot of gambling problems, and found a nice paying job with a credible company. Ihave been able to read through most of

these stories and they relate to me. As per now, i am employed as a cashier of the company and am in huge debt of almost $25000. My bosses are not yet aware but concerns have grown over

unaccounted monies. I can nolonger gamble as i am under an audit now and i feel like am on a time bomb, Antime, they will find the missing link. Much is at stake and i can’t sleep or eat anymore. I have been a respectable person

but the thought of being exposed kills me. Some one advise on how i can handle this? Should i come clean to my already frustrated bosses? what hurts me most is i have no one to confide in with this situation. 

[dunc]

Hello and thanks for starting a thread in the Gambling Therapy forums

Here at Gambling Therapy we pride ourselves on being a caring and diverse online community who can help and support you with the difficulties you’re currently facing. We understand that this might be a tough time for you, particularly if you’re new to recovery, so come here as often as you need to and participate in the forums, access online groups and connect to the live advice helpline if you need one to one support. We’re in this together!

Here on the forum you can share your experiences in a safe, supportive and accepting environment. The beauty of writing it all down is that you can take your time and you will be creating a record of your progress that you can look back on if it ever feels like you’re not moving forward. So, share as much or as little as you like but do try to stick to keeping just one thread in this forum so people know where to find you if they want to be updated on your progress or share something with you.

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[Steev]

Thanks for posting at a difficult time. I take it that the unaccounted monies have been used for gambling? If this is so — then it is theft and you are in serious trouble. You are likely to lose your job, you may well have the police involved and I don’t know what the penalties are for theft in your country — but I am sure you can research that. I may be reading this wrong — but I would be getting some legal advice local to yourself and preparing yourself to come clean about things. If you can think of someone in your workplace that you can speak to first — perhaps to give you some support, that might be helpful. They might know if your employer will or will not take police action. Showing that you are wanting to work on giving up your addiction will help. EACAS is an organisation in Uganda offering help with gambling addiction but I am not sure if there would be a cost involved. I hope I have read the situation wrong and that you will not lose your job. Come back to us to clarify if you can. I wish you well.

[Callmecrazy]

Hi,
I can relate to living in a country that is not the US, UK or some other developed country and coping with a gambling problem. I have issues with the closed mindedness of where I live and there really is no real help for a gambling problem.

I do know a few things about audits. Some auditors are very good, some suck and can’t put 2 and 2 together no matter how much they try.

Have you been using money from your work to gamble? Could you perhaps ask for a bank loan and put the money back into the cash register?

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