Glad you and your wife are feeling stronger in your resolve. At the end of the day that is the only thing that helps us (and inadvertently the gambler).
It really is a journey of 2 steps forward 1 step back and then 1 step forward and 2 steps back isn’t it? Some days I wonder how the **** did we end up here but then I look around and everybody has their „stuff”.
We (meaning me) are back looking after my sons finances which is exhausting but he feels necessary in his recovery. Even though it is at his request it is difficult finding that balance between supporting and taking over.
Thoughts to you and your wife… this road is exhausting and gut wrenching so much of the time. I am glad you are finding your strength.
Cathyx