[Lucian758]

Hi I seriously need some help , for the last couple months I’ve started gambling and it has made me become someone am not . 

I have a small family my partner and our 2 year old son and I have hurt them so bad that right now am on the brink of losing them 

this gambling has brought me down to my lowest that I have ever been in  life , thousands of euros in debt my partner cant look me in the eyes and i cant either knowing that i have cause so much pain to her that she did  not deserve . I need help , need to get back to who I use to be .

[dunc]

Hello and thanks for starting a thread in the Gambling Therapy forums

Here at Gambling Therapy we pride ourselves on being a caring and diverse online community who can help and support you with the difficulties you’re currently facing. We understand that this might be a tough time for you, particularly if you’re new to recovery, so come here as often as you need to and participate in the forums, access online groups and connect to the live advice helpline if you need one to one support. We’re in this together!

Here on the forum you can share your experiences in a safe, supportive and accepting environment. The beauty of writing it all down is that you can take your time and you will be creating a record of your progress that you can look back on if it ever feels like you’re not moving forward. So, share as much or as little as you like but do try to stick to keeping just one thread in this forum so people know where to find you if they want to be updated on your progress or share something with you.

As well as the forums New Members are invited to join Charles in the New Members Practical Advice Group On Mondays at 21:00 (UK) and Thursday at 19:00(UK)

And on that note….

I’m going to hand you over to our community because I’m sure they will have some words of wisdom for you 🙂

Take care

The Gambling Therapy Team

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[Steev]

I know that is what gambling will do to you. I thought I had reached rock bottom with my gambling, but then I met someone who had gone down further than me … There is always another level.

I don’t know what your lowest is – you haven’t said much about yourself, but please believe that you can stop gambling. Read around this forum and look at the tales of people who have stopped for days, months, years and decades. There is lots of information here too about banning yourself from gambling places / websites; not having access to finance; keeping busy and getting good support for yourself.
If you feel you can, maybe write a bit more about your situation so that others here can help you to find your way. There is also the new members group tonight. I wish you well.

[Auteur]

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