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    • #35854
      roberto123
      Participant

      hello there I think that tomorrow 31/12/2016 will be my last day gambled and sunday 1/1/2017 will be my first day G free. it has been a long fight with this demon and I think it is time to make it over. I have been for almost 4 month g free untillthe last slip I had two days four days ago. a bad friend took me to the casino and a whole round or BANG started again… he took me there without my even knowing it… I found myself there and the devil,s round strted all over again today I ended in a video poker house where I decided to stop after loosing 120$ the whole bung took me about 400$ today I decided to go back to my sanity again and ui hope next will be the best year of my life…the lesson of this round? if I leave this website here I am dead… I had too much stress and problems and troubles during these past 4 mth period and I know if I haven’t got complacent and kept on coming back to thissite daily as I was doing I wouldn’t have slipped. and even this cunny friend couldn’t have taken me there … so that is it for now I,ll post later. keep going all of you and keep strong … and always remember that the problem gambler has only ONE PROBLEM in his life … if he gets over it all his life will be well……

    • #35855
      charles
      Moderator

      Hello and thanks for starting a thread in the Gambling Therapy forums

      Here at Gambling Therapy we pride ourselves on being a caring and diverse online community who can help and support you with the difficulties you’re currently facing. We understand that this might be a tough time for you, particularly if you’re new to recovery, so come here as often as you need to and participate in the forums, access online groups and connect to the live advice helpline if you need one to one support. We’re in this together!

      Here on the forum you can share your experiences in a safe, supportive and accepting environment. The beauty of writing it all down is that you can take your time and you will be creating a record of your progress that you can look back on if it ever feels like you’re not moving forward. So, share as much or as little as you like but do try to stick to keeping just one thread in this forum so people know where to find you if they want to be updated on your progress or share something with you.

      As well as the forums New Members are invited to join Charles in the New Members Practicle Advice Group On Mondays at 21:00 (UK) and Thursday at 19:00(UK)

      And on that note….

      I’m going to hand you over to our community because I’m sure they will have some words of wisdom for you 🙂

      Take care

      The Gambling Therapy Team


      PS: Let me just remind you to take a look at our privacy policy and terms and conditions so you know how it all works!

    • #35856
      charles
      Moderator

      Hi and well done on looking for support.

      I will reply more fully when I have more time but I do just need to say this.

      The best time to take positive actions is NOW. There is no need for you to gamble tomorrow. If you are here then you ahve a gambling problem. if you lose you are likely to chase. if you win… well are you really likely to stop?

      You need to stop gambling? Then good decision, stop now.

      Keep posting and let us know what you do tomorrow INSTEAD of gambling.

    • #35857
      roberto123
      Participant

      Well dear charles i stopped yesterday . For today i have work as an emergency doctor all day long till monday morning so i have no chance to gamble. I just liked the date 1/1/2017 as a fresh new start . That’s it charles. I will start counting from this date. It’s not that i wanted to gamble today no you got me wrong.

    • #35858
      charles
      Moderator

      Ah, ok my apologies. I can remember lots of times when my next bet was going to be my “last one.”

      I am glad that your fresh start is a day earlier than I thought 🙂

      Keep posting and check out the group schedule as well, hopefully I will see you in there at some stage.

    • #35859
      roberto123
      Participant

      Well 1/1/2017 this is day one G free happy new year to all dear fellow fighters wish you all a well beginning and a happy ending. And pray for me with my new start….
      I will not let any stress
      Any combination of life problems
      Any bad friend or bad circumstance
      To let me forget the one and only problem i have in my life….
      That is the demon of gambling inside my head.
      Wish you all a G free year.

    • #35860
      Linds
      Participant

      Hello

      Today is my first day of G free and I am so determined I can do this and just reading your words has given me hope and the belief I can get through this.
      Thank you

    • #35861
      roberto123
      Participant

      this is day 2 G free for me I will pray for u linds and pray for me and keep posting here we will walk thru this year together

    • #35862
      charles
      Moderator

      It’s good to hear you are so determined Roberto. Read the other stories here, what sort of thing is helping others that you can apply to your own situation? What barriers can you put in place?

      As you say, there is just one thing you have a problem with – what other positive activities are you going to be doing to fill your time?

      Keep posting.

    • #35863
      roberto123
      Participant

      hello there… day 3 relapse free… here I am … one man fighting this demon …. with no other weapon but g therapy .org … u have all the weapons there.. I have only g therapy .org may god help me on my journey… wish u all well…how are u doing lind? haven’t heard from u for a while… I’m worried about u.

    • #35864
      roberto123
      Participant

      Day 4 relapse free
      Some social and family problems…
      Ok i’ll not foget the goal of these problems …
      There goal is to let me forget my main problem which is this demon inside my head… the demon of gambling….
      I’ll stay focused…. knowing that i have only one problem and not many….

    • #35865
      JayKay82
      Participant

      Stay with it Roberto. Easier said than done at times i know. However the longer you stay away from gambling the easier it is to stay away. Days gamble free become weeks and weeks become months. You can do it.

    • #35866
      roberto123
      Participant

      Thanks jaykay. This is day6 relapse free and the fight goes on…
      Stay strong and stay focused everybody.

    • #35867
      roberto123
      Participant

      day 10…I’m sitting here with my son…
      days without gambling are peaceful…
      don’t know when the next attack will come…
      pray….

    • #35868
      vera
      Participant

      Pray as if everything depends on God and
      ACT as if everything depends on you, Roberto
      then you will be ready for “the next attack”!

    • #35869
      3raser
      Participant

      You have the best form of defence against these attacks, your mindset, your strength and GT.

      One day at a time

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