Hi JP
Good to hear from you. Glad you are posting. You will feel numb and there will be times when you won’t want to deal with it at all. That’s fine, don’t deal with it. Have compassion for yourself. As I said it can all wait. I did not open my letters for three months. Whilst I would nt recommend waiting that long, there will also be days where you do feel able to deal with a few things when you come out. Get help from family to do it if you need to. Just tell your story to your creditors, as much or as little you want to. Believe me when the alternative is bankruptcy your creditors will give you time and as I said, with the banks it is usually six months. So rest a while, chill out, watch tv, read if you are able to. I couldn’t focus on very much for quite a while. Find you. You are what is important right now, not the debts. They are really unimportant in the great scheme of things.
