Yes I changed it so it would all (rather than just some) go into his account. But Ive always handled his account as well. I know how to get into even if he changed the passwords and what not ….. I’ve done it for gambling before 🙁
I’ve just always been responsible for making and managing the money. He takes care of the housework, our child, dinner, etc. I suppose maybe I am just not ready to give up that type of control. But I think having our of all money deposited into his account not mine is a good start! I wrote down every bill that is due and how much so he will be checking his account to make sure it’s done and hold me accountable.
A reward system is a great idea. I think I’ll reward myself a little after a full month of no gambling. Thank you!