Hi Jonny and other reader. Just read this thread and see that got a mention, just like to put in my perspective. I was not at all perplexed about mentions if I should or shouldn’t tell my partner…..these have been my thoughts, if it is proved that my partner is thinking of cheating. Why would I want to seek support from a man that would cheat on me. Totally understand where that was coming from.. I so appreciate different views on my question. End of the day I see this as information for me to process and think about. It can be difficult writing when we can’t see each other’s expressions as words can be mis understood and interrupted. Please everyone keep writing, you have no idea how much this is helping me at the moment, knowing I’m not alone with this terrible addiction…..