I know how frustrated you feel, Kathryn. I have asked myself “Why bother” often. Unfortunately that attitude brought me to the casino. That’s the way CGs deal with problems.
Why is Dames not working? Is he ill or just no work available?
You can’t be held responsible for everything, Kathryn.
If it consoles you, most people are in a financial crisis post Christmas but your main consolation is your present situation isn’t as a result of gambling. When my husband says “I had to pay x amount to have the car serviced x amount for fuel etc” I feel myself shrinking into the ground. I ALWAYS think “If I hadn’t lost so much money gambling he wouldn’t have this stress”.
The thing is Kathryn we should learn to take joint responsibility for expenses. You have been doing a lot so don’t feel you have to pick up the tab for everything.
I hope Dames gets work soon….
I was going to just say
“MEN…”
when I started this post but I thought twice!!!!
