Don’t waste time or words explaining your position, Jay.
I used to gamble in response to my husband’s “lack of trust”. I justified my gambling by saying “I might as well gamble, since he doesn’t believe me”. The reality is Jay, we blew the trust with people who deserved better. Now its pay back time, to some degree. CGs are quick to pick up the tab and try to defend ourselves. My suggestion would be to change the topic when it arises. Your fiancé needs to attend Family and Friends or Gamanon to learn when to talk and when to remain silent. Dipping a CGs nose in his past mistakes helps nobody.
Just bite your lip, keep doing what you are doing and eventually she will begin to trust you again.
Actions speak louder than words.
Thanks for posting to my thread.
well done on 9 G free weeks.
