Thanks sad for your post. Thanks for your compliment. I have come a long way and accomplished a lot especially since the death of my Husband (22 months ago) There were many times I wanted to go on a gambling binge but I processed the thoughts through my mind and the consequences. I’m not getting any younger and I need to make sure that I have a secure future. I think my Mom isn’t going without anything but her extra money isn’t lasting till her next payday and she has no savings. My dinner with my sister was good. I approached the subject of mom’s mental health and my sister blew me off. That’s the response I was expecting. She said that mom is real needy and that she is glad that I am there to help her. My oldest Daughter told me that I wasn’t alone that she will help me anyway she can and that I have her support. So that was good. It is what it is. I’m having lunch with my youngest Daughter today and doing the grocery shopping for the birthday party.