[Monica1]

Thanks both. Yes, there are a number of options but right now I just dont know what to do so will wait until after gma. I think the counselling will help as it goes on for a while after the initial few days in Hereford. I am sure it will help me Orientate myself as to what my options are and where I actually am in life. Ben was also considering moving to Kent, near my daughter. And as ever, Vera, you are very intuitive cos I have never wanted to live in the flat I am in. There are simply too many bad memories here.
The lady from ga has texted me and wa ted to meet up. She is persistent and I respect that. Instead of ignoring it I have said we will meet up when back from gma.