Very helpful post, ty. Well, I didn’t make it to the docs but it can wait till Monday. It’s a wee bit cold outside. Thanks for the advice about your recovery ie length of time. The first three months have certainly been emotionally painful and full of obstacles. But I look forward to the next three cos I know I cannot stay like this forever and something in me will keep that flame of hope alive even when the emotional stuff arises, as it does. Thanks also re the explanation as to Geordies motivation. I told that story about my ex because it reminded me of it and not to say that it applies to this situation. One of the things I have experienced in this period is a lot of life memories surfacing. Not sure why this is happening but I am sure it is for a reason. Now on the trivia side, I don’t understand all the brackets round a name. What does that mean? Thanks!
