Ok so I had had a couple of bourbons before I posted that last night, I’m clear headed today. The scenario is that dames work has been really up and down the last year. I have been reluctant to use his pay for living expenses to ensure that the bills were covered for as long as possible, not knowing when the next pay would arrive. So I used the card. Yep, I should have told him and take 100% responsibility for that. He won’t listen to me, and as far as he is concerned I have just been spending without thought. He refuses to take ANY responsibility, and that is what makes me so angry. It takes 2 to tango, and I would never have done it inless I felt worried that there may not be a pay day for a while (he lost his mojo last year and became very lazy, we discussed it)
So that’s where I am. Can’t do much about it, it is what it is but thanks girls for your support, I appreciate it, I really do.
Onwards and upwards, K xxxxx
