Many thanks to Monica and i-did-it for your words. I know people are obviously trying to help, but often they can come across (to me at least) as preachy. The “this is how you do it” brigade. I can’t stress enough, that I know their intentions are good, but equally, there’s only so much about any situation you can know from the words written on a forum post. I always try and make sure whenever I comment on the posts of others that I make it clear am giving an opinion or an option. There is no right or wrong, it’s not black and white, but many shades of grey. You have both made me feel a lot better about my decisions and situation and as I enter day six, I am feeling oddly happy. It’s a Saturday, usually the biggest sporting day of the week, and sports were always where I was most active … and then often slots or roulette for a quick fix whilst the match was in play! Very much expecting today to be gamble-free though. Thanks again folks!
