[lizbeth4]

Hi Monica, I feel the delima you are in. When I had money, I helped family members with large amounts of money. My situation is different now. I help myself first. Then I help them with small amounts of money if I can. It may sound selfish but I think we need to take care of ourselves first. We aren’t gett ing any younger. Just my thoughts. I know it is hard to say no. And to put yourself first. Just my thoughts.