As a CG , Jenny , the last place I would choose to lie would be on Social Media.
Maybe your husband is looking for attention or trying to impress somebody with the “good life” he is having.
Most gamblers I have encountered, including myself , want to be invisible, not broadcast their whereabouts, but maybe Velvet has evidence to the contrary.
Regarding bank details, I would be extremely wary of giving a gambler access to my bank account. I had a scare back in January with a suspected “scammer” after a sizeable sum had been transferred to my current account. I turned out to be my own “scammer” a couple of months later which proves my point that CGs cannot be trusted with bank transactions.
‘Nuff said!
