and try to keep a cool head, Lizbeth. It’s a bad idea to made ANY decision when you are under such severe stress. I was in a similar situation in March 2015, when a member here advised me to “make a plan”. The plan was fruitful. A small amount in a “touch -me-not ” Savings account built up gradually…it saved me…taught me to be patient…then last April I screwed up AGAIN, but thank God, that fund is still intact. I travelled a long journey today and had Confession with an Italian priest. He told me “forget about the money you lost-you may have lost the battle but you can win the war”. Words from God, Lizbeth. I am passing them on to you. Be patient. Do nothing until your head is clear. Just breath and walk and pray. God is good!
