Kin, can I let you in on a little secret?
( I wish I was 50 again!!)
One thing we cannot control is our time. It’s all in God’s Hands. I know when I was working, relatives of dying patients would ask “how long has he/she got left”. I always replied “nobody will take one breath more or one breath less than their Creator decides”.
It’s what we do with that time, Kin is all that matters.
I agree with you, that getting caught up in group members’ situations is not healthy.
We have to rise above those matters.
That’s where our Higher Power comes in.
He never changes!
