You are dealing with a couple of issues here, Tina.
Your man making plans where you are excluded
(THAT WOULD PUZZLE ME!)
Your awareness that you gambled in his absence in the past
(HAVE YOU DISCUSSED THIS WITH HIM?)
Where do you stand in a relationship that you feel is not balanced.
(IN THE PAST I WOULD HAVE “CLUNG ON”. THESE DAYS I WOULD BE LOOKING AT THE CO-DEPENDENCY ASPECT AND CONSIDERING MY OPTIONS)
Only you can decide, Tina.How long do you know him and how well?
The one thing for sure is that you will need to be on your guard when he goes. Tie up your cash and focus on your recovery.
Stay busy!
