Hi Guys,
So yesterday, what a pain! I went into work, got a little "oh so sorry this happened" from the assistant manager. In reality the biggest issue was 1. She didn’t want to work alone. 2. He didn’t want to come in.
Typical of his poor management skills there are only 4 of us and he gives himself and the other banker Tuesdays off so when the assistant or I am off it interferes with HIS social life ( his "girlfriend" is also off Tuesdays ). While I do feel singled out ( which is MY issue ) this is really about HIM. If the same situation had happened with the other banker the result would be the same. I have to deal with him better. This is part of my growth. It’s NOT ABOUT ME! It is not personal. " change the things i can, and the wisdom to know the difference."
So yes, I am off the rest of the week! Yeah!! I’m am a bit sidetracked but hope to get some cleaning done, kill the dust bunny army that patrols my place too. They are relentless you know!
Yes Vera, I do have a cat that will bite the hand that feeds it! Typical of the male’s I attract I say, lol! But I love him anyways, he is not vicious, but will give a nip when he’s overexcited. That little b*st*rd ran out that door two more times and yesterday I left him in the hall for a bit. I just walked in the door and I refused to chase him. ( thats what he wants ) So i walked in the hall. called his name and brought a can of food with me. He can move pretty fast when food is involved and ran right back up the stairs.
Oh so something really creepy happened last night. I was chatting on safe harbor and I heard this noise. It went on and on, like a motor running. I look up and it’s my VCR, which I rarely use, rewinding and chewing up a video tape, then spitting it out! How did that happen?? I was no where near the thing, haven’t used it in months. Weird! I turned it off, maybe i need to unplug it too and banish it to the basement or trash. I think it’s possessed! Yikes!!
To "A", if you are reading this, I was very glad to chat with you last night. I know you are dealing with a lot of emotions right now. Anything is possible, you CAN change things. YOU have a choice. Look at the stories here, the success, the trials, the failure and the triumphs! Take the info that you can use, leave the rest. I look forward to you starting your own thread and getting the advice you deserve. We tried to do it our way and we mucked it up pretty good. Time to surrender! Time to try something new! YOU are WORTH IT!
peace
bettie
