Hi Guys,
Thanks Laura and Lizbeth.I did call my sponsor, cry (again) like a baby. She related her own story of one -sided "relationships". I felt a little better. Then she slammed on line chats and asked my about my spirituality. This is the big one for me. I am not looking for a religious conversion and frankly if that is the only way to recover I am sunk! She plans to give me some daily scripture to read and I am more afraid of organized religion than I am of being a cg. Trying to be open minded but once you tell someone that you are Catholic the headlights go on and the bible thumping starts. Just as I had a bad experience years ago with a male counselor, I was almost driven to a nervous breakdown by a "born again" religious group that my Ex husband was going to. ( with his 2nd wife, who divorced him too).
Lets see what today brings
bettie