Hi Bettie, sorry for your Aunt’s passing! I know what you mean, I always said I would’nt be like my Mom (even though I love her) OMG, I have soo many of her traits, some that I don’t care to have. My Mother spent most of her time focusing on my brother from childhood to around 5 years ago, because he had soo many issues. My Sister and I had each other. Well my Brother is now causing his own issues (bad ones) and has no contact with her, my Sister and her have no relationship, but theres me (the fixer), I put all the past behind me, and I’m the only one who talks (phone) everyday, and visits her. But she does’nt get it, why I’m the only one there!! I always treated my children the same, because I knew how that felt to be treated differently! Oh well, that’s my story. I can relate! She’s too old now to change and she does’nt want to anyways. Yes, my condo is all shiny and sparkly, where’s my sunglasses!!! Take care!! Why did the teller get fired??Seize all the good things in life