Hi Guys,
Oh rough day. One of the tellers got let go and my Aunt passed away.
My Mom is doing better than I thought she would. My Aunt lived about 6 hours away and we will make what can be a treacherous car trip this time of year. She called to tell me she will stay at my brothers house and I can stay there or at the hotel if I want. Problem is my brothers home has major issues, and we will be turning them out of their own bed. Nice that they offered however, my mom really doesn’t want to spend the money for the room. She just had a miserable visit with them over Thanksgiving, at least according to her, so why does she want to go back? Since that time she has also managed to buy him a used car complete with title transfer and license plates.
Whats wrong with this picture? Any time I have borrowed a penny I was expected to pay it back. SHE BOUGHT HIS HOUSE FOR HIM! He doesn’t work, never really has, and she has bailed him out time and again.
Guess I’m a bit frustrated, to say the least, but I will get past it. I guess I’m just mad. She knows Jen was off of work with the broken foot and out of pay too. I pretty much gave her my entire last check to make up for the missing money, and now I have no money for this trip. Where is the help for Jen? She spends almost every Saturday with my mom, visiting, watching movies, taking her out. No other grand kids can be bothered with her. When I mention my mom and say that I have the mother of all mothers, I’m not kidding!
Have not heard what arrangements have been made. (Would not surprise me if no one wants her to come to the service, sad to say. She burned those bridges a long time ago.)
What a sad, sad person my mother is. I heard everyone goes to the shrink and blames their mother for their faults and short comings. I know I have a lot of her traits, and it frightens me. It is truly a miracle that I turned out as well as I have, and we all know my life has been no bed of roses, well, except for the thorns.
Sorry to vent but felt the need.
peace
bettie
