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lizbeth4
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Yes Bettie, let them come to me, was my thought too.  Don’t really want to be in the middle of all that mess.  Son-in-law has come to me before, he’s more willing to tell me problems and ask for advice.  Daughter, like me, thinks she can work out her problems by herself.  Just worried how this affects my Grandson, he’s very aware when something is wrong.  Funny story: he’d been with me for 3 days, and he tells me everything that’s going on in his life.  Waited till my daughter came to pick him up, and told me in front of her that Mom and Dad have been arguing alot.  It was like he wanted my daughter to know that I knew.  His and my bond goes deep, my husband and I raised him the first 2 years of his life, we had custody of him. His parents had major problems, and were in a place where no child should be in.  They both got their lives together, which I’m soo thankful for.  Both working, and going to school to better themselves.  Daughter got BA in May, and is now getting her masters.  So, our relationship has been strained, we have come along way this past 2 1/2 years.  They are great parents now.  We have him with us 3 days a week, sometimes more, anytime they need us.  Although, hes really my Grandson, I feel like he’s my son.  Im sorry about going on about this but I feel like I can tell you anything.  Will stay out of they’re business unless Grandson says something to alarm me. Thanks for listening.  Day 17Seize all the good things in life