Hi Bettie, me Liz50. I just want to tell you that it is YOUR program, not anyone elses. If coming here helps you it’s probably a good thing huh! No one can really decide what is good for us, others are only supposed to share what has worked for them. Sounds like to me the other perosn has a control issue and should probalby work on his or her own program- just saying. Why would being online be a sign of isolating? That’s something the media says. We are where we are- no more, no less. I remember one time I was at an Alanon meeting and it was almost over & everyone was laughing and I made a quick comment to the speaker and another person "shished me" (shhhh) me. I started bawling, bad. I felt so unwelcome and hurt- as I had not done a thing wrong. Two good things came out of that- 1- other people opened up to me and said it shouldn’t have been done and 2, I was actually able to move on and let go of it- I think you are doing fantastic. We all know how powerful the disease is, so anyone who can abstain- in my eyes- is doing good. I hope you have a better evening! I am on day 3- have an issue coming up tomorrow and have it pretty well planned out. Anyway, glad to see you. Take care! Hugs.Liz50
