Hi Bettie, that so called male "friend" you have, is not a friend! He undermines your self-esteem and in one word I would describe hin as "mean" to you. He disappoints you constantly and does not treat you with respect. I know that in the past you have tried to end the relationship with him, but you keep allowing him back into your life. As long as you keep allowing emotionally abusive men into your life, you leave no room for a healthier relationship with someone else. I wouldn’t even tell him that you want him out of your life; show him by your actions. You’re recovering from compulsive gambling which is an addiction that gets a real stronghold on people like us. Start a recovery journey from this man and make a pros and cons lists of what you get from the relationship. Get rid of any so called "friends" that don’t treat you with respect and consideration of your feelings. This is all suggested to you in love Bettie! Carole
