Dear Kathryn,
You know that I don’t understand but I am on the sidelines cheering you on.
I do have some ‘not so good thoughts’ about Dames going to your club and I think that you show that you are the stronger by far in resisting. He is a selfish ….. …… ……. !! sorry couldn’t help myself.
Being F&F does not mean that we are understanding, kind and considerate. We are human beings without an addiction but we can have some pretty nasty traits too. I am always so sad when I hear that a CG who has made such a courageous fight for their life is let down by the selfishness of an F or F.
I can think of nothing redeeming to say about Dames at the moment so I will sign off but I will say thank you so very much for contributing to the F&F topic group. We need CGs to help us know what we have done or are doing wrong – for instance it would be good if Dames understood a lot more. I think I am not alone in glaring at the screen when I read about his behaviour.!! F&F’s concern is often understanding what is right if a relationship is to continue and coming to terms with what went wrong. We can get no better guidance than a CG who has committed their life to being gamble-free and is willing to share with us. Thank you. xx
It is such terrific news about Bailey and I am so pleased. I hope he goes from strength to strength.
Loads of Love and well done on being strong xxxxxxxxxxxx
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Velvet