Interesting Kathyrn, I havent read far back but I’m very familiar with being stuck in a controlling relationship. I dont understand people who spend half their lives making people feel like cr*p, it’s normally because they are insecure themselves but that’s no excuse. I had a girlfriend for two years who was insanely jealous every time I so much as talked to another woman, and eventually she became physically violent towards me and it ended up very serious before I finally walked out the flat. I’m not saying you have anything of that nature but it sounds like he needs a reality check; mind you, you cannot change other people unless they want to change, like on here.
