Hi All,
Interesting weekend i have been having…..i have decided to try and take some control over the finances, consolodating loans and finding out how we can afford to buy a house one day….so i have made appointments for next week to see our accountant and a broker. I rang to get some figures on what we owe on our loans and on the tax debt…turns out that we have had more tax piled on top of what we owe and we have hardly paid anything off…well, we have, but the figure has hardly dropped.
I had to tell Dames…..it didnt go down so well. That man has been looking for a fight all weekend. He has been as snippy as hell, it doesnt matter what i do it isnt right…frustrating to say the least. So, after the little tanty, to which i said that we cant have 1 adult conversation in our life, he calmed down. Then it was something else, then something else, i bought cheap steak, his shorts were wet in the washing machine (something i did on purpose of course!!) on and on it went. I was looking for a reason, was it male PMT, was it that he was tired, WHAT WAS IT?????
Anyway….i had gone down to the street yesterday and found out that a friend of mine, who worked at the local pub was leaving for a new job. I worked with her for 8 years on and off and they were having a surprise drink for her. She has been there for 27 years, since she was 15 years old. I rang Jode and we decided to go. Left the men with the kids, and at 5pm we headed down. It was a great night, i only had a few drinks (not a drinker) but i caught up with so many people i havent seen for a very long time, and the woman in question was really happy to see us. There was speeches, cake and tears, it was just fantastic. We left at 9, and i went back to Jodes for a coffee. I got home at 9.45 to Dames, sitting on the chair, arms crossed…ugh.
Now in his defence i did say i was going for an hour, but we have an unwritten rule in this house that an hour is never an hour. He was livid. I went straight to bed. I looked out my window and what did i see????
A FULL MOON!!!
Besides Meg popping into my head straight away, i knew the reason. I should have known all along…lol.
So an up and down weekend, the ups have been more than the downs. Im staying well out of Dames’ way until this moon settles down!!!!!
Hope you are all well and happy,
Kathryn xxxxxTo live, that would be a great adventure – Peter Pan
