Hi, Kathryn, I just finished reading about your trip to the club and I must tell u how touched I was by YOUR response, so many women would have blown up over the situation that you found yourself in esp. when hubby was kind of gambling in front of you and you could not. What a great guy to realize this and to say he was sorry. Your self exclusion was in place and did help keep things in check, but so did you. Good for you girl to leave, I am far from an expert, but it really seemed like the absolute thing to do, go away from what can harm you…..Now, question, do you think about gambling more now since that night or about the same? I ask because on New Years Eve a friend asked me to go to the Casino and I said no of course but I thought about gambling that evening and had to do other things to get if off my mind…I did not gamble though.May all our weeds be wild flowers!!!