Can understand completely where he is coming from cos if I had the money I would not spend winters here either. Agree with geordie here. And you are so right if you love someone set them free. I am pretty much on my own but will not gamble but it certainly has been a trigger, one of many, in the past for me. You will need a plan Tina for how you manage money and what you do in your spare time. I find the gym or swimming pool beckons in similar circumstances. But it could be anything else you are interested in.
