[Monica1]

And yes, the abbreviated name is fine. No one calls me mons except it is what I call myself when talking to myself. Yes, sign of madness, I know. I think to suppress talking about something is to actually make it worse. Talking about being in action should not be a taboo but to be respectful of someone if it causes Urges. For me and you it did t, had the opposite effect. So you are right. Should not be a taboo subject.