Menez,
You are right – it sound boring to our addicted brains but once we stop gambling our brains start to change – and we being to enjoy the things others enjoy .
For example, I know I have been quite miserable with grocery shopping . I would shop for bargains and then come home and gamble a grand.
Now I look for good quality produce that my family will enjoy- it was Monica on this site who helped me think differently about food- and I cannot believe the difference in taste … and yes I really enjoy eating it .
Our addicted brains consciously or subconsciously save all our money for gambling. Next time you get some cash, forget about saving or paying back – buy yourself something nice to wear and see how nice it feels to wear it .
For my recovery , treating myself is the most motivating thing-
A nice new outfit is better than a gambling hangover anyday .
Hope this helps