Kpat, your post did not hurt me at all.. I found your post very comforting in fact and I think you are absolutely right. Some things came up in group last night and I just kind to started to see things with new eyes ..
I saw how I had sat back waiting for change , burying the issues i didn’t know I had in gambling, eating , tv etc.. I don’t know why but something changed for me in group. Some nerves were exposed .
I guess my “rant” in my post is a continuation of that process.
I think perhaps I am getting the courage I need to change things …
I am getting stuff out of my system.
Sorry if it came across otherwise because when I read your post my thoughts were look at how God is using Kpat to reach me , to get me to stop accepting the unacceptable .
You couldn’t hurt me Kpat. I scan the thread for a few people’s posts and you are always one of them. I am going through down stuff but u know I have made it clear that I am no longer accepting anything less than respect and I can feel change in my home already !!!
Sorry if it felt like an assault on you. It was me letting stuff out ..
You are beautiful !! Truly beautiful!!