It’s a complicative addiction. Understanding the addiction helps to cope but its sad to see how a love one is sucked in by an awful complusion. Theres tons of help here for both the gamblers and the love ones.but at the end of the day they have to take the desicion to get help.
Its all up to them.
No one can tell u what to do But you sound like a very smart lady am sure that you know what is best for you and for him And in no way does that make them a bad person there sick seriously just like any other addict you have to really under stand that.that they choose yes and the can recover if they choose to.you can always give him your support by;
Give them the address to ga meetings
Counselors that can help a cg
Doctors are also a resource that can prescribe medication for there necessities but its all up to them.they choose to go and help themselves..
