Matters between you and I could have been resolved very easily at the time, and they stlll could.
I read on another thread you’ve finally bit the bullet and are taking steps to give hubby control of your finances. That’s not a baby step for you, it’s a massive leap in the right direction. I really hope that you do go ahead with it.
I think you probably won’t appreciate this post, but if you think about it it’s going to be very difficult to avoid each other on the forum.
That said I may well get excluded today for posting the reply to Charles, if not though it’s important for us both to get things sorted. I don’t know if GT would host a closed group with just you and I, and maybe Vera. Animosity, bad feelings, and mistrust only lead to problems for all concerned.
This is an olive branch IDI, it’s up to you whether you take or leave it.