I dont think he is gambling anymore. All my family on his side now know of his addiction and if it ever came out again that he was gambling again then he really would push us all away for good. I have just realized lately just how much he is using me and has used me the last 7 years, he asked me for £100 nearly three weeks ago and I have been waiting for over a week now for pay back and nothing, I last text him on friday morning saying how I cannot lend him anymore money as it is causing a lot of stress for me and my girlfriend and I have had no reply. It is the first time in 7 years I have said I will not lend him any more so will be interesting to see what he has to say about that.
I am just tired of me lending him money time and time again and every time he never pays me back on time and its too much hassle for me now and I don’t want anything to do with it anymore.