Hi everyone, so I am really struggling with dealing with my fears that my boyfriend will begin gambling again. Whenever I see him feeling down or moody my mind instantly goes to him gambling. For the most part he’s been good and pretty open with me but today he got moody and said he just didn’t feel good mentally. I asked him if he had feelings to gamble and he is beginning to get mad because I always think that’s it. I don’t say it in a nasty way I say it in a caring way because I want to be there for him. Is this wrong? How can I deal with my emotions the right way and not live in constant fear of his relapse? I wish he would join a forum either on here or go to a meeting. Just want him to have support but he doesn’t seem interested. Just tired of always feeling like its going to happen all over again. Also, what are the signs of a gambler gambling again?
