Your message couldn’t have come at a better time
And reading it has helped calm me…he is THE most selfish person I have met in my entire life, he thinks solely of himself, right now he is ordering himself his 2nd pair of £55 football boots in two days because he’s not gambled for those two day he feels he has every right to spend that money else where and on himself, I see it that he should be using that money towards out rent that is a week late, and when suggesting as such, he shouts at me…..
I suppose I should think myself lucky that as im not a blood relative I could always walk away, but I know i won’t….
I feel for your situation and I sympathise so much with your daughter in law, one of my biggest fears is that one day I will give up, he will then finally get the help he desperately needs but it will be too late for us, he will then go on to get a new girlfriend who will reap the benefits of the 7 years that I have suffered trying to achieve….does that sound strange? That’s the way my mind thinks. Some times I just want to lock my self away and scream!