Well cant say I dis-agree with any of the above to be honest.
What I can honestly say is that when you said on day 1 or 2 that you were aiming to get through 30 days, I thought you stood very little chance at all.
Full credit to you I’m sure that you can use the 32 days you’ve accumulated to date as a sound foundation for the rest of your gamble free life, one day at a time, of course.
I also wouldn’t be at all surprised if, at some future date, you did tell your wife. *(I’d be more surprised if you never did……it’s all about change).