You don’t need to say ‘never again’. Just say ‘not today’
Im sorry you are having such an awful time of it.
Your wife obviously loves you…..would she have stayed this long if she didn’t? I don’t know if you will be able to sort it out, in truth people can only take so much, but theres always hope.
Have you considered having your wife take over all the finances? You said it yourself, trust is gone, so perhaps its time to let her have control while you are still actively gambling. It could also be an olive branch, showing your commitment to managing this terrible addiction.
We got a dog a year ago. My husband harped on for 10 years, promised me that he would do everything, pick up the poop, feed her, blah blah blah.
While I refuse to pick up after her, I feed her every night. He takes her to work with him which is great, we take her camping which she loves and shes a pretty funny thing (kelpie). Anyway, enough of my blabbing, just wanted to welcome you back, you know what to do. So time to do it and kick gambling out of your life.
Love K xxx
