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Hi Stephen ,
This is my third time attempting this post – it keeps disappearing. .
Firstly I am Irish too so I know how impossible it is to self ban there ! I know that gambling is really poorly regulated .

I understand that you and your brother are grieving your mum but I think you could work together to achieve her dying wish – to see you stop gambling .

Open up to your brother , ask him to take full control of your money . He might be able to help you get a loan so you can press reset on your debts. There are many way around this – you will be helping your brother with his grief also.

Also I think you should consider residential at the following

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You can pay off the fees over a long time if you need to – this is a non- profit organisation.

You can beat this Stephen- and the time to do it is now .

I know how close Irish families are (even when we fall out). We would move mountains for each other- talk to your brother .