9 October 2020 at 8:58 am
#69088
kathryn
Participant
I just wanted to congratulate you on your gamble free time!
nI had the same thing with my husband, the little remarks now and then. I let it go for 2 years (probably too long but I felt I deserved it) After that, I said no more! I wouldnt let this be thrown in my face anymore. Yep I made some terrible mistakes while in the grips, but I felt he had punished me enough and I said one more word and Im done. The only time we have spoken of it since was when I bought it up. We punish ourselves enough and while I 100% get the anger, breach of trust, sadness etc, we cant help them move through that, all we can do is keep working on ourselves and hope the changes in us are proof enough. Just keep going, youre doing great!
nLove K xx